Talking dirty can feel weirdly intimidating even when you’ve been to bed with women for years — there’s a little voice that whispers “what if I sound ridiculous?” Good news: that voice is lying, and dirty talk between women has a built-in advantage. You already know, from the inside, how these bodies work and what …
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The Anatomy of an Orgasm: What Everyone Should Know
We spend a lot of time here talking about how to chase an orgasm, delay one, or ruin one for fun — so it’s worth pausing to ask what an orgasm actually is. Knowing the mechanics won’t make it less magic. If anything, understanding what’s happening under the hood makes you better at giving them, …
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A Top’s Guide to Keeping Her on the Edge
Anyone can rub a clit. Being a genuinely great top — the kind who can keep a woman hovering on the edge for as long as you like and have her thank you for it — is a different skill, and it’s mostly not about technique. It’s about attention. This is a guide to the …
Edging & Denial for Men Who Love Men
Two men, one very good idea: instead of racing to the finish, draw the whole thing out until he’s desperate. Edging and denial between men has a few delicious advantages — you both know the equipment intimately, there’s a prostate in play, and chastity gear was practically made for this. Here’s how to keep him …
Denial Games for Three (or More)
Everything that makes tease and denial delicious — anticipation, helplessness, being outnumbered by people who all want to wreck you — scales up beautifully when there are three or more of you in the room. More hands, more mouths, more ways to be kept right on the edge with no idea what’s coming next. Here’s …
Dirty Texting for Every Dynamic: 30 Ready-to-Send Lines
A good dirty text is a tease you can send from across the room — or across the city. It plants a thought and lets it grow all day, so by the time you’re actually together, half the work is already done. The best part: this stuff works for absolutely everyone. No gendered anatomy required, …
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The Reward System: Earning Release (a Denial Game)
Denial is more fun with a scoreboard. Instead of just telling your man he can’t cum tonight, turn his release into something he has to earn — a prize at the end of a game only you control the rules to. It gives the denial a shape, gives him something to chase, and gives you …
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Tease & Denial Between Women: Toys, Touch & Timing
Tease and denial between two women is a playground with almost no rules and a lot of very good toys. Nobody’s locked into who leads, the equipment is endlessly swappable, and you both know exactly how the other one is wired — which makes the teasing land that much harder. Here’s how to make the …
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Edging Her: A Gentle Intro to Teasing a Female Partner
A lot of guides on teasing assume the person on the receiving end is a man on a hair-trigger. But teasing a woman toward the edge and holding her there is its own art — slower, more layered, and, honestly, a little more forgiving. If you’ve been wanting to try edging with your girlfriend or …
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Tease & Denial 101: The Beginner’s Guide for Any Couple
Most of us learn sex as a straight line: get turned on, build up, finish. Tease and denial takes that line and loops it — back to the edge, away from it, back again — until anticipation itself becomes the main event. If you’ve ever drawn out a kiss just to make the next one …
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