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Here’s the biggest myth about kink: that it’s all spontaneous. That the sexiest thing is to be swept up, wordless, no plan, pure instinct. It makes for great movies. It makes for shaky first scenes. The truth is almost the opposite. The hottest, most out-of-your-mind scenes usually start with a surprisingly unsexy-sounding thing: a conversation. …
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There’s a moment in a good power-exchange scene where everything else in the world goes quiet. One person is giving orders; the other is following them. And if you’re watching from the outside, you might wonder what on earth either of them is getting out of it. The short answer: a lot. D/s — Dominance …
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It’s the start of No Nut November, which makes this the perfect moment to tackle a question a lot of couples wonder about but rarely say out loud: how often does he actually need to finish? And the nervous cousin of that question — is keeping him waiting doing him any harm? First: is denying …
The denial half of tease and denial is refreshingly simple — you just don’t let him cum. So this post is all about the tease: a dozen ways to keep your man wound up, hopeful, and thoroughly at your mercy, including a few you might not have tried yet. Whether you’re brand new to this …
Here’s a little game of chance to hand your man on a night you’d rather let fate do the teasing for you. He grabs a single die and rolls his way through each step below — category, timer, method, and fate — doing exactly as the dice decree. You just sit back and enforce the …
Here’s the whole idea of tease and denial in one sentence: you walk your man right up to the edge of orgasm, over and over, and then — just as he’s about to tip over — you pull him back. Making him finish in the first five minutes is easy. Where’s the fun in that? …
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Not every orgasm is created equal — and when you’re the one in charge of his, that’s a wonderful thing to know. Whether you want to reward him, ruin him, or leave him aching with nothing at all, here’s your menu. Five different ways to let your man finish (or not) while you’re training him, …
Tease and denial is one of the most deliciously evil things you can do to a man — and if drawn-out denial isn’t your thing (or his), you can always let him cum… eventually. Your call. Here’s the beautiful part: foreplay doesn’t have to lead straight to sex. Tease and denial can stretch out over …
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He may not be allowed to cum all month — but that doesn’t mean the two of you can’t play. Denial games are one of the easiest ways to fold a little kink into your sex life, and No Nut November is the perfect excuse to get cruel about it. Because there’s nothing quite like …
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Just adding a little something extra into the usual activities can make for entirely new experiences. Here are some little things to try: Don’t stroke his penis – squeeze him rhythmically instead. Moan your approval while you are sucking his dick. Long day at work? Tie him up with his own tie. Loop a pearl …