Sex is all about fantasies and helping you to get your emotions wild. Do you know what it actually means to reach the edge of orgasm over and over again, and then head back to the starting point? Well, that’s called tease and denial, and there are some tricks available to help you become a pro in this section.
Increasing tension and erotic arousal is the main goal of tease and denial, and there are multiple ways to do so. If you are planning to tease your male partner be sure to read up on the steps involved. Making your partner cum in the first go is nothing special; there’s no fun in it whatsoever.
But, if you can just tease them right up to that moment of orgasmic delight, and then stop, that helps in prolonging the fun. A wild night (or next several) awaits you, so why not take full advantage of it?
Learn About Tease and Denial First
You may have heard about teasing and denial from your friends or the internet or wherever, and may be eagerly waiting to try it on your partner.
First, let us understand what it actually means. Prolonging the time taken to climax by periodically suppressing it with the objective of achieving a longer lovemaking session and greater orgasms is what we call tease and denial.
You have every right to have your partner’s sexual desires in control and make him suffer (in a good way) for as long as you like. This act can be anything from working on any specified positions, or role-play, whatever attracts your partner the most. When you feel like he is about to cum, stop what you are doing.
Don’t fuel up his fantasies at that moment. The more he begs for your participation at that crucial moment, the more it shows how desperate he is for the orgasm. So, when the time finally comes, his ejaculation will be massive, and the satisfaction following the release will be just over the top!
Working on the Practices
Now, the art of teasing and denial is pretty vast and comprises many methods for you to try out. So, let us run through those points first, to get a glimpse of those ideas. Once done, you can try these methods out for yourself.
| Total Denial As suggested by the name itself, total denial means doing nothing to stimulate his cock. You can simply just not touch or interact with his genitals at all. A more complete method is to use a physical device or barrier, like a chastity cage. Without a physical barrier, he will most likely still obtain an erection. Even with the physical barrier, you could accomplish sexual arousal, but that solely depends on the ways you are using those products. |
| Tie and Tease Have you ever visited an adult sex toy store? You have probably seen a whole aisle dedicated to physical restraint devices. Well, these products are for those who really want to take the art of “tie and tease” to a whole new level. Many bondage toys are available in the market, which will intensify your lovemaking session. As a significant part of erotic denial, you may have seen So, the stronger sexual feelings will escalate into a sense of that helplessness, leading to ultimate satisfaction in the end. |
| Strap-on Harness Designed for Men Do you want him to suffer pleasantly and still provide ultimate pleasure to you? Well, a strap-on dildo is your answer. A man can wear it around his waist and use it to penetrate his partner’s vagina or go for anal sex, without using his gun for that. He can feel your warmth across your body, and your moans will definitely drive him crazy, but his penis is still restricted from entering either of your warm holes! To intensify this moment a bit more, why not use a chastity cage with it? That means his dick is literally under lock and key, while he is thrusting that fake dildo inside you, making you cum over and over again. Sometimes, strap-ons are perfect kinky partners for those who want to prolong penetrative sex. So, if he is unfortunate enough to suffer from premature ejaculation, that won’t affect his sexual life with you. You will enjoy penetrative sex more than once, thanks to adult sex toys! |
| Tease and Denial Games (To Make Him Wild and Go Gaga Over YOU) Are you looking for some ways to improve sexual tension between you two? Well, why not try out some of the tease and denial games, which will make your partner beg you for some more? Tease him right into a frenzy, and then just at the right moment, deny him that orgasm. Well, that will teach him to understand your value more, don’t you think? Tease and Denial Games |
Simple Tricks to Tease Your Man for Good
So, the same old boring sex life is driving you insane, and you really want to spice things up a bit. He gets what he wants and cum faster than usual. You want this night to be an extended period of fun game, especially when you have the next two days off!
So, why not take this opportunity to turn this 15-minute sex session into a night-long endeavor? Well, tease your man using some simple tricks, and enjoy the pleasure of denial more than what you have anticipated.
Dressing up in a sexy outfit will do the trick for sure!
Put on a tight body-hugging dress, which will show those smooth and delicious curves well. Those breast-exposing dresses will surely rush some blood into his penis. But wait! Don’t let him touch you. Tie up his hands behind his back.
No step back and show him your wild body from a distance. Try stripping down every bit of your clothing one by one. That will tease him for good! Additionally, as you are not letting him touch you, that doubles up the teasing factor too.
Throughout your striptease press your tight butt against his willie. That soft butt on his hard dick will make him jump with pleasure. Let him beg to enter you, but don’t give in to him.
Why not try to masturbate just in front of him?
That’s when he would like to participate and help you with that by fingering. Don’t give in to that temptation and deny his entry! That will tease him pretty hard for sure.
How about quick oral sex?
But, always remember not to end this make-out session. Use your tongue and mouth to get his engine going, but when he is about to explode, just stop! Yes, it might sound harsh a bit, but the extreme pleasure that follows will make up for it.
When you are cuddling, rest your hand on his crotch and give it a little pressure. Or, you can brush against him while moving to the next room or lean over to him, so that your soft breasts get to rest on his hard chest. These are some pretty effective ways to get him hard and longing for your body.
Get Some Items by Your Side
To intensify the idea of tease and denial, there are some items that the adult industry has in store for you. Adult sex toy shops have dedicated aisles for that as well. So, without wasting any further time, let us get a bit of knowledge about these items first.
- Haven’t you seen bondage gear when you first visited the adult sex toy store? Surely you have! Cuffs and similar other devices are there for you to apply to your partner. It means, that even if he wants, he won’t be able to touch any part of your body.
- You can obviously get your hands on those chastity devices. Yes, it might seem a bit old-fashioned, but as the saying goes, “old is good”. Those cock cages are perfect to be placed on your guys. There are plenty of choices as the adult industry keeps coming out with newer products.
- Do you think that your partner is just on the brink of orgasmic release? If so, then using a vibrating sex toy can help elevate that moment and feeling to a whole new level! Markets have remote-controlled vibrators as well, which allow you to tease your partner without letting him cum. The vibrating feel will add pulsating sense throughout the entire body, the
experience of which is hard to describe in words! - Want to increase that level of anticipation in your partner? Nothing beats the importance of blindfolds for that. Your partner is just sitting stark naked in a chair with his hands cuffed behind him, and with blindfolds on. He has no clue what’s happening or what to expect from his partner. He is just feeling your
soft boobs and butt brushing his body once in a while, and sometimes your warm mouth around his dick. But these touches are for a few seconds only without any clue what’s going to happen next. These simple touches are enough to make your man go crazy! So, blindfolds are a must for that tease and denial game.
Want to take teasing & denial games to a whole new level?
Well, some simple tricks and tips can definitely help you to take this tease and denial game to a whole new level. These tricks need not be restricted to your bedroom if you know what that means!
Any place, with a little bit of privacy, can help you enjoy your sexual adventures well, and you can always take the chance to drive your partner crazy with some of these tease and denial game points. These tips are seriously worth it, to say the least!
Time to Help Your Partner Get Prepared
Get your partner ready for a round of denial game, and from that moment, everything will start working in your favor. If you really want to enjoy a fascinating experience, you need to know every bit of his body well. Give him the chance to experience some new arousal techniques.
Some respond well to adult sex toys, and then you have others, who crave the touch of the bare hands of their partner.
- It would help if you always encouraged your partner to masturbate. But you should
keep a close watch on it. He must masturbate but shouldn’t achieve orgasm. Keep a strict restriction on his orgasm. Give him the chance to explore enough just to know more about the limits, but don’t let him reach the climax. - Always make sure to stimulate his genitals, but that does not mean you should not pay heed to other parts of his body. Right from his thighs to his butt
,nipples to even hismouth, every part of his body matters and you must work on every point to help him get aroused.
This entire process might seem easy, but it isn’t because each man has different erogenous zones. So, you should learn more about your partner first and then start working on his erogenous zones. Take your time and then start the tease and denial session with ease!
How about dirty talk?
If you are a bit shy to talk dirty to your partner, it could be because it is your first time. Well, don’t worry as you can always talk about the most taboo and deepest fantasies with your partner, without thinking a single bit about orgasm. Here are some Dirty Talking Tips!
Even if he wants to cum, you must stop right there and don’t help him to masturbate.
- Not just talking dirty but try getting naked together and tease one another to the point where you can’t contain yourself any longer. But just at the last moment, stop it and wait till he can’t keep it within himself any longer!
- To make this situation more interesting, you can take the help of the bondage devices. Tie his hands at the back and then blindfold him. Anything that will make this situation more challenging will work in your favor. Once he has mentioned that he has reached his limit and can’t wait
any longer, that is when you are almost there, just make him wait a little longer. - In the end, he will turn as hot as fire and will beg you to release him. At that moment, when/if you finally allow him to orgasm he will not only moan with satisfaction but experience the most mind-blowing orgasm!
Denial Numbers to Keep Track of
Be sure to choose a number of teasing and denial tricks. For example, make him reach the level of ecstasy five times or ten times before you let him cum. Once you have decided on the number of cycles, make sure to tease him till he is all set to erupt within that number.
Back off every time and he will definitely crave for you to continue. He will keep begging, but, do not show any sign of mercy and you must not give in to him. Always remember that if you can make him wait longer for that orgasm release, it will be stronger than usual.
SETTING UP A DATE IS REALLY IMPORTANT
You can try to be a bit strict with your lover when it comes to orgasm. He might find it a bit rude at first, but when the time comes finally, he can’t thank you enough! So, try picking one date on the calendar. And make sure that your lover does not orgasm before that
You should tease and deny him multiple times on the days leading up to the chosen date. Numerous sessions of dripping precum are sure to keep him looking forward to the time of allowed orgasm.
On the days that you are apart a great way to tease him is to send him dirty texts. Dirty texts are great anytime. If you need some help with ideas, here are some Dirty Text Examples.
Try getting through that normal day of yours, and then book a romantic dinner with your partner. This moment calls for some dirty talk. Don’t hurry and take all the time you need to take him to bed. The real reason is to kill as much time as you can and make this situation unbearable for him.
So, when the final moment arrives, he will explode (in a better way of course!).
TURN ORGASM INTO THAT REWARD
Based on the level of relationship that you are in, there are multiple things that you can target as criteria for procuring those rewarding points.
Play a little game with him. Let him do some things to earn his orgasm. There must be a final score of say 50. Now, to reach that goal, he must cover up some tasks beforehand.
- For example, give him 5 points for bringing you flowers, 10 points for doing the dishes without being asked, or 10 points for satisfactorily eating you out with a bonus of 5 points for doing it while dressed as a sexy fireman. Whatever you want, make up your own scoring system.
- These games will not just make it harder for you to give that orgasm but will help you enjoy your wildest sexual fantasies at the same time. Having him dressing up as a sexy fireman or giving you a great orgasm with his tongue will tingle your senses too! So, it’s a win-win situation for both!
- Once you have successfully covered all the tasks and earned the final points, it is time to get a reward, and that calls for a perfect orgasm he’s been waiting for! Try to set the bar high and make it harder for him to collect the points.
- The harder the games get, the higher will he crave an orgasm. Making the games way too simple won’t give him the urge he needs for that finest orgasmic pleasure in the end. The climax will be mind-blowing only if he has to wait for it long.
TIME TO CHECK OUT SOME OF THE PHYSICAL RESTRAINTS
Some couples have gone through teasing games more than once and are always looking for ways to make these moments more exciting. So, it is not uncommon for them to try out physical restraints for a change. Some couples are head over heels for these mechanisms and can’t just get enough of it.
- The market has
multiple physical restraints items for you to try out. Using these products on him for a certain period of time will help you to control his orgasm better. - Moreover, these physical restraints will help you to take teasing to a whole new level by adding extra time to it. Even it helps in increasing dominant control.
- So, using these products will eventually help in increasing the
intensity of sexual arousal and orgasm on both sides, to say the least.
It isn’t that hard to come across physical restraints these days. You can always visit an adult sex toy and grab the latest model that the market has in store for you. If you are a bit shy and don’t want anyone else to see you purchase these items, online stores have many promising choices for you to make.
Get your partner beside you and start scrolling through the online pages. You will not believe how many options you are going to find! Try getting one at a time and use that product first.
The market has plenty to choose from so that you don’t have to restrict yourself to just one.
FULFILLING HIS WILDEST FANTASIES
He does have some fantasies, right? Why not try fulfilling those for extreme pleasure? To find out about his fantasies try watching porn together and the rest will be history! Tie him up to the bed and play the wildest porn video, which will tickle his fantasies well.
Tease him while he’s watching that video. After a specific time, he can’t take it any longer and will beg you to let him cum. No matter whatever the reason might be, don’t fall for his requests. Let him wait for a long time before you give in to his desires.
Touch him all over, and that will make him feel helpless. When you are all done, it is time for you to decide if you are looking forward to a long-term denial or a short-term one. You can help him reach climax then and there, or pick another date when you are planning to end this game.
TEASE HIM MORE WITH A CHASTITY CAGE
No matter how hard you try, he might find some ways to masturbate and relieve himself. When he can’t control it any longer, you can prevent him from stroking by providing him with a chastity cage. This cage is what you need to seal the deal, in the most literal sense possible.
- Try stroking his body, tease him by kissing him as passionately as you can and even get to put on an erotic video to leap him with excitement. But, don’t forget to put this chastity cage on so he can’t get near his cock, even if he wants to.
- Thanks to this amazing invention called the chastity cage; he will not be able to climax in the traditional method no matter how hard he tries. It will be a pleasurable sight for you to see him squirm.
- More fun than you anticipated!
- If you search thoroughly, you will come across multiple ways to deny orgasm. You might make a plan for a short denial or one that takes time. But, learning the types of orgasm denial beforehand can help you big time.
- You can try out edging as one important point to consider. When you think your partner is about to climax, stop or slow down the stimulation. You can work out this mechanism through genital stimulation. Sometimes, you might try out a blowjob, prostate massage, and some other sexual acts.
- Sometimes, you can work out on chastity play as well. Some might even try out the submission and dominance play for a change. This orgasm denial tactic will help you to be in total control of your partner and his orgasmic pleasure.
- Another type of orgasm denial will be the climax challenge. It is one random challenge that some couples drool for! For example, introduce the world of gambling into sex life. You must be wondering how. You can roll a dice or flip a coin to decide if you are likely to have the orgasmic pleasure this night or not. It is fun and exciting, and will always help add that extra level of spice to your relationship.
The Perfect Way to Increase Intimacy
People have mixed emotions when it comes to teasing and denial. Some couples think it to be extremely rude, but only because they haven’t tried it yet. Once you do, you will realize the importance of it.
Many couples find this art of teasing and denial to be a great way to increase intimacy between two people. They feel more connected while having sex after a solid round of denial. It will help them realize each other’s worth and how they cannot stand to be without each other!
Playing hard with this submissive or dominant control will help foster feelings of commitment and devotion among both partners. For some, this mechanism is an example of a therapeutic manner and helps increase self-control.
No matter what the scenario might be, it is unquestionably one of the best ways to add some spice to your love life. If you truly want something different and unique, every time you hit the bed, working on tease and denial might serve you right.