Tingles Delight

Is male orgasm denial harmful?

Here we are at the start of No-Nut-November, so I thought this would be an appropriate topic right now.

Let’s get one common misconception out of the way from the beginning. A male will suffer no permanent physical damage by being denied an orgasm for any length of time. Even an indefinite length of time. Even a permanent one. The male body (though simple in complexity when compared to the superior Female anatomy) has a built-in mechanism to take care of pent up sperm and spermatic fluid that has been trapped inside the male reproductive organs for a lengthy period of time. When denied release for a long period of time, the sperm and fluids will build up to maximum capacity, causing the male a great deal of sexual frustration and genital discomfort, but eventually, this build up will take care of itself by way of re-absorption into his body. This re-absorption process is too slow to provide a denied male any feeling of relief or decreased pressure in his swollen testes that an ejaculation would give him, so the ache in his testicles (or blue balls) will not lessen at all, and he will always feel as on the verge of bursting, but such an extended ejaculation denial will not cause him any actual physical harm.

For Women who prefer to give their denied males some occasional release (without the relief of a full ejaculation), there are always ruined orgasms (which will release fluid from his body without providing the sexual relief of a full ejaculation), but this should always be up to Her to decide the method and timing of any such release. That is, if she chooses to allow him any release at all.

If the male has in mind just some mild chastity play, then She should be prepared for the possibility of him trying to top from the bottom along with some bitching and whining when he hasn’t been allowed to cum for only three days.

Long term orgasm denial should always be the eventual goal, it might not be appropriate immediately for everyone, at least not at the beginning of his chastity training anyway. She may want to slowly work up to longer term male orgasm denial, with longer and longer periods of denial between each scheduled release, pushing him beyond the limits he thinks he is capable of, until finally, he understands that he will rarely be permitted to cum again.

For example, if She tells him he must go a week without any type of release, then the next time, She should extend that time to ten days or maybe even two weeks with no release. It’s then important that She emphatically sticks to to that predetermined time frame, with no questioning, begging, whining or recourse allowed on his part.

Her steadfast resolve will fulfill his hardwired need to submit to Her and his deep-seated and unspoken desire to be told ‘NO’.

The longer the male is denied, the longer he will be able to maintain the anticipation of sexually serving the Female that he so secretly craves, and the more desperately he will need to serve Her, as his sexual frustration and dopamine levels saturate his brain.

The longer the male is denied, the longer She can reap the emotional and physical rewards that naturally come with keeping Her male chaste, all the while keeping Her work-load of maintaining his chastity to a bare minimum.

So to answer the burning question of how often should he be allowed to cum? Initially, longer than he thinks is reasonable. Eventually he will come to the realization that the definition of ‘reasonable’ is best left up to Her. Even if what She thinks is reasonable turns out to be months of orgasm denial.

Male orgasm denial for extended periods of time can be best achieved by requiring him to wear a locked male chastity device (spikes optional). Gradually extending the lengths of time between release as you work him up to longer and longer sessions of orgasm denial. As for my husband, I made him wait a week the first time, then two, then three, and so on. And now I could not be happier. I have all the orgasms for both of us now and he gets all his pleasure by serving me in any and every way I demand (and I demand a lot) and by giving me as many orgasms as I want. And I’m having more orgasms (and better orgasms) than I ever was before I locked up his cock in a chastity cage.

He is usually required to wait at least a month between full orgasms. His cage now only comes off when I want. I usually allow a couple unlocks a week for “cleaning”. The “cleaning” sessions actual provide him a little relief of the pressure in his balls. The usual process is to unlock him and give him a long teasing and edging session, sometimes ending with a ruined orgasm, sometimes multiple ruins. After the session is when the cleaning starts, since he is usually messy from lube, precum, and cum from his ruined orgasms. We usually get in the shower and I use lots of soap and make sure to clean his cock and balls completely, and give him a couple more edges during the cleaning. Then some cold water to get his erection to go down, so I can squeeze him back into his cage.

When the time comes that I decide he is allowed an orgasm, it becomes al all day event. Lot’s of teasing, I try to keep him as hard as possible in his cage all day. Towards the end of the day it turns into several hours of an intense teasing session for him. I have more orgasms than I can count and after hours of edging he is finally allowed to have one. He describes them as the most intense amazing orgasms ever.

Since the denial portion is pretty simple, don’t let him cum, we will be focusing on the tease aspect in this post. We will provide some ideas on ways for you to tease him that you may not have thought of.  So if you are just starting on your tease and denial journey or just wondering what else you can do to tease your man, make sure to keep reading.

Too Tired to Tease? 

Starting with this one because it is one that I think gets forgotten about a lot. Constantly teasing someone can get tiring, or sometimes if you’ve had a long day, you may not feel that you have the energy to tease your man. Don’t worry, this is one of the easiest times to tease. Just don’t do it every day. Have your man do all the work for you. That’s right, he can do the teasing himself. You just need to be the one “forcing” him to do it.

Basically, you are going to tell him he has to masturbate. All you need to do is set out some rules he has to follow. Tell him what porn video or category he needs to watch and how long he needs to go. Remind him that he is not allowed to cum, or he will be punished. 

You can make this much more interesting by adding some chance to the situation. Have him roll a die or flip a coin for each aspect of the situation. Such as one roll for the category of porn, one roll for the number of times he must edge, another for the length of time he must not touch between edges…  If you want some premade rules, you can check out https://www.faproulette.co/ or try our Do it Yourself Dice game

You can leave him alone in a room to do all the teasing himself. You can go watch some TV and have a glass of wine or whatever you want. It might be a good idea to check on him occasionally, reminding him not to cum, and making sure he is doing as told.

Scrabble Tiles

One bag of scrabble tiles. All night long. Here are the rules.

Every time he gets you off, he gets a Scrabble tile. When he can spell a word worth 20 points (or whatever you choose), he can finally achieve orgasm. But if he’s unable to spell anything or doesn’t realize when he can make a word (no helping him!), he’s denied after all that tease.

You can start over every day if you’re especially devious. Or he can collect his tiles over a period of time if you’re not multi-orgasmic, or the two of you don’t have a lot of time, and you want to make it a bit easier on him. This means he might have to wait several days or weeks until he’s able to cum!

Coin Flip

Will the luck of the flip be with you? A simple coin toss allows you to determine whether your partner (or yourself) gets off! If luck isn’t with you, a night full of teasing leads to denial. But if you’re lucky, you can finish with an orgasm. 

After a long day of pushing his buttons, teasing and using him, you tie him up and tell him, “It’s time.” You pull out a coin and say, “heads or tails.” If he guesses correctly, You’ll give him release. Guess incorrectly, the night ends (either ruin his orgasm or deny him). Flip the coin, catch it and hide it from his sight. Wait for him to answer, and then lift your hand so only you can see. What you do next is completely up to you! Did he win? pretend he didn’t, tease him one last time, getting his hopes up… and then deny him.

We like to use a single die or app for a similar effect. Odd numbers can be “Yes,” while even numbers can mean “No.” Or you can modify a classic game like Yahtzee. If your partner gets five-of-a-kind in three rolls, he also gets off. There are many ways you can customize this. 

A simple example game: Have him roll a pair of dice. The total number is the number of edges he will get. Have him roll a single die to determine the position, one – on his back, two – on his side, three – on his back with you straddling his face, four – on all fours, five – standing, six – kneeling.

The possibilities are endless here, you can create whatever you want. Be sure to check out https://www.faproulette.co/ for lots of ideas.

Ball Day

During long tease and denial sessions, his balls can get achy and sensitive. This is a great opportunity for you. Focus on his balls. This will drive him wild.

Give him a bad case of blue balls before bed. The next morning, inquire how his balls are feeling and ask him if he’d like you to “take care of them today.” He will obviously say yes…. and so begins ‘Ball Day. 

First, direct him to the shower and shave them. Then over the course of the day, play with them constantly, completely neglecting his penis. Be creative, apply ice, suck them, use a vibrator, paint them, use a ball stretcher or separator, put googly eyes on them, grip them while watching a movie, tie a cord around them like a leash and pull them in close as he performs oral on you.

It is preferred that you do not touch his cock at all, but if you must, you can, but just very minimally. Maybe just trace one finger along it every now and then, or just a little nibble with your lips. Do not suck it or stroke it, though. Remember, this is supposed to be Ball Day. 

Chore List

Write a list of chores for the day and promise him a release upon completion. The list could also include servicing you! As he works, continually tease and add things to the list throughout the day… keeping him working. Then, tie him up, play, and lead him to believe his hard work has earned him a mind-blowing orgasm. While tied up and unbeknownst to him, you’ve added a last-minute chore to his list… after merciless teasing, untie him and ask him to go get his list to claim his prize. Watch the frustration set in…   

An extension to the Chore List, tease him before giving him a number of chores to complete. Remind him that failure will result in denial. Once all is done, take him around the house inspecting each job and tease him in every location. At the final location, place a condom on him, say, “we don’t want to make a mess”, build up the anticipation and begin pumping. Get him close, stop …and then point out a single minor ‘error’ with his work… “you missed a spot right here. I guess we can try again tomorrow.”  

Cards – Queen

First, get a deck of playing cards and remove all face cards except a single queen, a king, and a joker. Shuffle and have him draw a single card. If it is a number card, you will edge him once. Repeat this until he draws a face card. Joker = ruin or deny him. King = cum. And Queen, as the name suggests… “queen” him. Add the drawn number cards together and sit on his face for that many minutes. 

(Pro Denial Tip: without telling him, remove the king)

Cards – Denial Time

Have him draw 3 number cards. He will not be given permission to cum for this many minutes, hours, and days. You could take it to the extreme… days, weeks, months.  

Marbles – Blue Ball

In a pouch, place one blue marble, one green, and 10 white. Blue = game over (blue balls) Green = cum. White = edge. Have him pull marbles until he gets a non-white marble. The number of whites is how many edges you’ll give him until either you stop (Blue) or let him cum (Green). Obviously, he’ll be hoping to pick out the green marble before he picks the blue.

(Pro Denial Tip: without his knowledge, remove the green ball)

You could also make it an all-day thing, where he selects a marble every couple hours or for each “task” he completes or maybe each time he gives you an orgasm. You could also add additional blue/green/white marbles as rewards or punishments throughout the day.   

Similar to Blue Ball… You could replace the blue marble with a red one or just add a red one. If he selects the red marble before the green, you ruin his orgasm.   

No Good Answer

After days of teasing, let him earn release, but rig a game of Blue Ball Marbles, so he’s guaranteed to win the green marble. He needs to be certain of his own release. Begin your final edge and start agonizingly slow. 

Ask him, “what will you do for me tomorrow, If I let you cum?”, Wait for him to reply and slightly build up your speed… then ask, “what else do you promise?”. Repeat this a few times, building speed as he delivers promise after promise. 

Finally, once you have been promised every wish and desire, ask him, “are you doing this for me, or just to cum?…. if he says ‘to cum’, deny him and scold him for answering incorrectly. If he says “for you,” follow up with “will you do anything for me.”. He’ll obviously say ‘yes.’ Then, ask if he’ll hand over his green marble…   

The Condom

Tease and deny him for multiple days. Be very vocal about the fact that when it’s time… you’re going to give him an earth-shattering milking into THIS CONDOM (literally holding it up). 

Give him a list of demands to complete for the week, work him right up and keep referencing the condom. Take it with you to places, leave it where he can see it, continually give it to him to look after for a while, talk about you milking him into it and filling it right up…make him obsessed with it. Make sure before proceeding with the next bit you have it back in your possession. When he’s well and truly earned his release, say, completed his list of chores, tie him up and have some fun with him. 

This next bit requires some finesse. Once he’s about to explode, gag him and drop the bombshell…”I hope you kept the condom nice and safe.” He will be confused. Tell him that you left it on the coffee table for him. He will again look confused. Say, “I hope it’s still there,” and leave him. You can then pretend to look for it and deny him for losing “The Condom.”   

The Fempire Strikes Back

Wait until he’s watching a short tv show (something with a short runtime), pause it, and tell him you’re going to tease him for the whole show. Deny him, but tell him you’re going to watch a movie tonight and will only grant him release at the end. That night, start watching Star Wars. Use and abuse him, sit on him, tease him… When the credits roll, remind him how many Star Wars Prequels and sequels there are… 

Also works with Marvel movies – The Denied Avenger… 

Hide and Clean

Show him 3 post-it notes with the letters C-U-M written on them. Tell him to go have a shower and wait there while you hide them in rooms of the house. Place 2 of the 3 letters in rooms around the house in seemingly difficult spots. Join him in the shower and bring him to at least one soapy edge. Then tell him that he has until 7 pm to locate all 3, or no cumming today. While looking for them, he needs to clean everywhere that he looks. Tell him if he is lucky, he’ll only have to clean 3 rooms. 

For the rest of the day, edge him to oblivion and watch him frantically search and clean the entire house. He’ll most likely find 2/3 of the notes… but never find the third. Tease him mercilessly as 7 pm approaches. Tell him that he is very close to finding it and that you’ll wait for him on the bed. 

At 7 pm, slip the note into your underwear and tell him to come to kneel before you. Remind him that he blew his big chance and that the remainder of the night would be spent pleasuring you. Remove your underwear and reveal the last letter… Then explain to him that if he wasn’t so selfish in his search, he might have found the last note.  

Roll a single die to determine what you must watch.

1. Blowjobs
2. Threesomes
3. Anal
4. Handjobs
5. Tease and Denial
6. Femdom

Roll a single die to determine length of time and minimum number of edges.

1. 10 minutes – 1 edge
2. 15 minutes – 2 edges
3. 20 minutes – 3 edges
4. 25 minutes – 4 edges
5. 30 minutes – 5 edges
6. 45 minutes – 6 edges

Roll a single die to determine the method of stimulation.

1. Hand
2. Two Fingers
3. Sleeve/Fleshlight
4. Vibrator
5. Hand & Buttplug
6. Fleshlight and Vibrating Buttplug

Roll a single die to determine possible finish.

1. Possible orgasm
2. Denied, try again tomorrow
3. Denied, restart now
4. Denied, into chastity for 1 day
5. Denied, into chastity for 2 days
6. Denied, into chastity for 3 days

If a 1 was rolled (possible orgasm) now roll a single die to find out if you are allowed and how.

1. Full Satisfying Orgasm!
2. Ruined Orgasm
3. Ruined with 3 minutes post orgasm stroking
4. Ruined then edged and denied
5. Full orgasm then two more as quickly as possible
6. Denied,try again.

Sex is all about fantasies and helping you to get your emotions wild. Do you know what it actually means to reach the edge of orgasm over and over again, and then head back to the starting point? Well, that’s called tease and denial, and there are some tricks available to help you become a pro in this section.

Increasing tension and erotic arousal is the main goal of tease and denial, and there are multiple ways to do so. If you are planning to tease your male partner be sure to read up on the steps involved. Making your partner cum in the first go is nothing special; there’s no fun in it whatsoever.

But, if you can just tease them right up to that moment of orgasmic delight, and then stop, that helps in prolonging the fun. A wild night (or next several) awaits you, so why not take full advantage of it?

Learn About Tease and Denial First

You may have heard about teasing and denial from your friends or the internet or wherever, and may be eagerly waiting to try it on your partner.

​First, let us understand what it actually means. Prolonging the time taken to climax by periodically suppressing it with the objective of achieving a longer lovemaking session and greater orgasms is what we call tease and denial.

You have every right to have your partner’s sexual desires in control and make him suffer (in a good way) for as long as you like. This act can be anything from working on any specified positions, or role-play, whatever attracts your partner the most. When you feel like he is about to cum, stop what you are doing.

Don’t fuel up his fantasies at that moment. The more he begs for your participation at that crucial moment, the more it shows how desperate he is for the orgasm. So, when the time finally comes, his ejaculation will be massive, and the satisfaction following the release will be just over the top!

Working on the Practices

Now, the art of teasing and denial is pretty vast and comprises ​many methods for you to try out. So, let us run ​through those points first, to get a glimpse of those ideas. Once done, you can try these methods out for yourself.​

Total Denial As suggested by the name itself, total denial means doing nothing to stimulate his cock. You can simply just not touch or interact with his genitals at all. A more complete method is to use a physical device or barrier, like a chastity cage. Without a physical barrier, he will most likely still obtain an erection. Even with the physical barrier, you could accomplish sexual arousal, but that solely depends on the ways you are using those products.

Tie and Tease Have you ever visited an adult sex toy store? You have probably seen a whole aisle dedicated to physical restraint devices. Well, these products are for those who really want to take the art of “tie and tease” to a whole new level. Many bondage toys are available in the market, which will intensify your lovemaking session. ​As a significant part of erotic denial, you may have seen ​these practices in the movie 50 Shades of Grey. BDSM partners are always seen using these bondage items and inventing various activities with them. Not just known for physically addressing erotic fantasies, but the tie and tease method is perfect for intensifying psychological needs too. So, the stronger sexual feelings will escalate into a sense of that helplessness, leading to ultimate satisfaction in the end.

Strap-on Harness Designed for Men Do you want him to suffer pleasantly and still provide ultimate pleasure to you? Well, a strap-on dildo is your answer. A man can wear it around his waist and use it to penetrate his partner’s vagina or go for anal sex, without using his gun for that. He can feel your warmth across your body, and your moans will definitely drive him crazy, but his penis is still restricted from entering either of your warm holes! To intensify this moment a bit more, why not use a chastity cage with it? That means his dick is literally under lock and key, while he is thrusting that fake dildo inside you, making you cum over and over again.  Sometimes, strap-ons are perfect kinky partners for those who want to prolong penetrative sex. So, if he is unfortunate enough to suffer from premature ejaculation, that won’t affect his sexual life with you. You will enjoy penetrative sex more than once, thanks to adult sex toys!

Tease and Denial Games (To Make Him Wild and Go Gaga Over YOU)​ Are you looking for some ways to improve sexual tension between you two? Well, why not try out some of the tease and denial games, which will make your partner beg you for some more? Tease him right into a frenzy, and then just at the right moment, deny him that orgasm. Well, that will teach him to understand your value more, don’t you think? Tease and Denial Games

Simple Tricks to Tease Your Man for Good

So, the same old boring sex life is driving you insane, and you really want to spice things up a bit. He gets what he wants and cum faster than usual. You want this ​night to be an extended period of fun game, especially when you have the next two days off!

So, why not take this opportunity to turn this 15-minute sex session into a night-long endeavor? Well, tease your man using some simple tricks, and enjoy the pleasure of denial more than what you have anticipated.

Dressing up in a sexy outfit will do the trick for sure!

Put on a tight body-hugging dress, which will show those smooth and delicious curves well. Those breast-exposing dresses will surely rush some blood into his penis. But wait! Don’t let him touch you. Tie up his hands behind his back.

No step back and show him your wild body from a distance. Try stripping down every bit of your clothing one by one. That will tease him for good! Additionally, as you are not letting him touch you, that doubles up the teasing factor too.

Throughout your striptease press your tight butt against his willie. That soft butt on his hard dick will make him jump with pleasure. Let him beg to enter you, but don’t give in to him.

Why not try to masturbate just in front of him? 

That’s when he would like to participate and help you with that by fingering. Don’t give in to that temptation and deny his entry! That will tease him pretty hard for sure.

How about quick oral sex? 

But, always remember not to end this make-out session. Use your tongue and mouth to get his engine going, but when he is about to explode, just stop! Yes, it might sound harsh a bit, but the extreme pleasure that follows will make up for it.

When you are cuddling, rest your hand on his crotch and give it a little pressure. Or, you can brush against him while moving to the next room or lean over to him, so that your soft breasts get to rest on his hard chest. These are some pretty effective ways to get him hard and longing for your body.

Get Some Items by Your Side

To intensify the idea of tease and denial, there are some items that the adult industry has in store for you. Adult sex toy shops have dedicated aisles for that as well. So, without wasting ​any further time, let us get a bit of knowledge about these items first.

• Haven’t you seen bondage gear when you first visited the adult sex toy store? Surely you have! Cuffs and similar other devices are there for you to apply to your partner. It means, that even if he wants, he won’t be able to touch any part of your body.
• You can obviously get your hands on those chastity devices. Yes, it might seem a bit old-fashioned, but as the saying goes, “old is good”. Those cock cages are perfect to be placed on your guys. There are plenty of choices as the adult industry keeps coming out with newer products.
• Do you think that your partner is just on the brink of orgasmic release? If so, then using a vibrating sex toy can help elevate that moment and feeling to a whole new level! Markets have remote-controlled vibrators as well, which allow you to tease your partner without letting him cum. The vibrating feel will add pulsating sense throughout the entire body, the ​experience of which is hard to describe in words!
• Want to increase that level of anticipation in your partner? Nothing beats the importance of blindfolds for that. Your partner is just sitting stark naked in a chair with his hands cuffed behind him, and with blindfolds on. He has no clue what’s happening or what to expect from his partner. He is just feeling your ​soft boobs and butt brushing his body once in a while, and sometimes your warm mouth around his dick. But these touches are for a few seconds only without any clue what’s going to happen next. These simple touches are enough to make your man go crazy! So, blindfolds are a must for that tease and denial game.

Want to take teasing & denial games to a whole new level?

Well, some simple tricks and tips can definitely help you to take this tease and denial game to a whole new level. These tricks need not be restricted to your bedroom if you know what that means!

Any place, with a little bit of privacy, can help you enjoy your sexual adventures well, and you can always take the chance to drive your partner crazy with some of these tease and denial game points. These tips are seriously worth it, to say the least!

Time to Help Your Partner Get Prepared

Get your partner ready for a round of denial game, and from that moment, everything will start working in your favor. If you really want to enjoy a fascinating experience, you need to know every bit of his body well. Give him the chance to experience some new arousal techniques.

Some respond well to adult sex toys, and then you have others, who crave the touch of the bare hands of their partner.

• It would help if you always encouraged your partner to masturbate. But you should ​keep a close watch on it. He must masturbate but shouldn’t achieve orgasm. Keep a strict restriction on his orgasm. Give him the chance to explore enough just to know more about the limits, but don’t let him reach the climax.
• Always make sure to stimulate his genitals, but that does not mean you should not pay heed to other parts of his body. Right from his thighs to his butt​, ​nipples to even his ​mouth, every part of his body matters and you must work on every point to help him get aroused.

This entire process might seem easy, but it isn’t because each man has different erogenous zones. So, you should ​learn more about your partner first and then start working on his erogenous zones. Take your time and then start the tease and denial session with ease!

How about dirty talk?

If you are a bit shy to talk dirty to your partner, it could be because it is​ your first time. Well, don’t worry as you can always talk about the most taboo and deepest fantasies with your partner, without thinking a single bit about orgasm. Here are some Dirty Talking Tips!

Even if he wants to cum, you must stop right there and don’t help him to masturbate.

• Not just talking dirty but try getting naked together and tease one another to the point where you can’t contain yourself any longer. But just at the last moment, stop it and wait till he can’t keep it within himself any longer!
• To make this situation more interesting, you can take the help of the bondage devices. Tie his hands at the back and then blindfold him. Anything that will make this situation more challenging will work in your favor. Once he has mentioned that he has reached his limit and can’t wait ​any longer, that is when you are almost there, just make him wait a little longer.
• In the end, he will turn as hot as fire and will beg you to release him. At that moment, when/if you finally allow him to orgasm he will not only moan with satisfaction but experience the most mind-blowing orgasm!

Denial Numbers to Keep Track of

Be sure to choose a number of teasing and denial tricks. For example, make him reach the level of ecstasy five times or ten times before you let him cum. Once you have decided on the number of cycles, make sure to tease him till he is all set to erupt within that number.

Back off every time and he will definitely crave for you to continue. He will keep begging, but, do not show any sign of mercy and you must not give in to him. Always remember that if you can make him wait longer for that orgasm release, it will be stronger than usual.

SETTING UP A DATE IS REALLY IMPORTANT

You can try to be a bit strict with your lover when it comes to orgasm. He might find it a bit rude at first, but when the time comes finally, he can’t thank you enough! So, try picking one date on the calendar. And make sure that your lover does not orgasm before that

You should tease and deny him multiple times on the days leading up to the chosen date. Numerous sessions of dripping precum are sure to keep him looking forward to the time of allowed orgasm.

On the days that you are apart a great way to tease him is to send him dirty texts. Dirty texts are great anytime. If you need some help with ideas, here are some Dirty Text Examples.

Try getting through that normal day of yours, and then book a romantic dinner with your partner. This moment calls for some dirty talk. Don’t hurry and take all the time you need to take him to bed. The real reason is to kill as much time as you can and make this situation unbearable for him.

So, when the final moment arrives, he will explode (in a better way of course!).

TURN ORGASM INTO THAT REWARD

Based on the level of relationship that you are in, there are multiple things that you can target as criteria for procuring those rewarding points.

Play a little game with him. Let him do some things to earn his orgasm. There must be a final score of say 50. Now, to reach that goal, he must cover up some tasks beforehand.

• For example, give him 5 points for bringing you flowers, 10 points for doing the dishes without being asked, or 10 points for satisfactorily eating you out with a bonus of 5 points for doing it while dressed as a sexy fireman. Whatever you want, make up your own scoring system.
• These games will not just make it harder for you to give that orgasm but will help you enjoy your wildest sexual fantasies at the same time. Having him dressing up as a sexy fireman or giving you a great orgasm with his tongue will tingle your senses too! So, it’s a win-win situation for both!
• Once you have successfully covered all the tasks and earned the final points, it is time to get a reward, and that calls for a perfect orgasm he’s been waiting for! Try to set the bar high and make it harder for him to collect the points.
• The harder the games get, the higher will he crave an orgasm. Making the games way too simple won’t give him the urge he needs for that finest orgasmic pleasure in the end. The climax will be mind-blowing only if he has to wait for it long.

TIME TO CHECK OUT SOME OF THE PHYSICAL RESTRAINTS

Some couples have gone through teasing games more than once and are always looking for ways to make these moments more exciting. So, it is not uncommon for them to try out physical restraints for a change. Some couples are head over heels for these mechanisms and can’t just get enough of it.

• The market has ​multiple physical restraints items for you to try out. Using these products on him for a certain period of time will help you to control his orgasm better.
• Moreover, these physical restraints will help you to take teasing to a whole new level by adding extra time to it. Even it helps in increasing dominant control.
• So, using these products will eventually help in increasing the ​intensity of sexual arousal and orgasm on both sides, to say the least.

It isn’t that hard to come across physical restraints these days. You can always visit an adult sex toy and grab the latest model that the market has in store for you. If you are a bit shy and don’t want anyone else to see you purchase these items, online stores have ​many promising choices for you to make.

Get your partner beside you and start scrolling through the online pages. You will not believe how many options you are going to find! Try getting one at a time and use that product first.

The market has plenty to choose from so that you don’t have to restrict yourself to just one.

FULFILLING HIS WILDEST FANTASIES

He does have some fantasies, right? Why not try fulfilling those for extreme pleasure? To find out about his fantasies try watching porn together and the rest will be history! Tie him up to the bed and play the wildest porn video, which will tickle his fantasies well.

Tease him while he’s watching that video. After a specific time, he can’t take it any longer and will beg you to let him cum. No matter whatever the reason might be, don’t fall for his requests. Let him wait for a long time before you give in to his desires.

Touch him all over, and that will make him feel helpless. When you are all done, it is time for you to decide if you are looking forward to a long-term denial or a short-term one. You can help him reach climax then and there, or pick another date when you are planning to end this game.

TEASE HIM MORE WITH A CHASTITY CAGE

No matter how hard you try, he might find some ways to masturbate ​and relieve himself. When he can’t control it any longer,  you can prevent him from stroking by providing him with a chastity cage. This cage is what you need to seal the deal, in the most literal sense possible.

• Try stroking his body, tease him by kissing him as passionately as you can and even get to put on an erotic video to leap him with excitement. But, don’t forget to put this chastity cage on so he can’t get near his cock, even if he wants to.
• Thanks to this amazing invention called the chastity cage; he will not be able to climax in the traditional method no matter how hard he tries. It will be a pleasurable sight for you to see him squirm.
• More fun than you anticipated!
• If you search thoroughly, you will come across multiple ways to deny orgasm. You might make a plan for a short denial or one that takes time. But, learning the types of orgasm denial beforehand can help you big time.​
• You can try out edging as one important point to consider. When you think your partner is about to climax​, stop or slow down the stimulation. You can work out this mechanism through genital stimulation. Sometimes, you might try out a blowjob, prostate massage, and some other sexual acts.
• Sometimes, you can work out on chastity play as well. Some might even try out the submission and dominance play for a change. This orgasm denial tactic will help you to be in total control of your partner and his orgasmic pleasure.
• Another type of orgasm denial will be the climax challenge. It is one random challenge that some couples drool for! For example, introduce the world of gambling into sex life. You must be wondering how. You can roll a dice or flip a coin to decide if you are likely to have the orgasmic pleasure this night or not. It is fun and exciting, and will always help add that extra level of spice to your relationship.

The Perfect Way to Increase Intimacy

People have mixed emotions when it comes to teasing and denial. Some couples think it to be extremely rude, but only because they haven’t tried it yet. Once you do, you will realize the importance of it.

Many couples find this art of teasing and denial to be a great way to increase intimacy between two people. They feel more connected while having sex after a solid round of denial. It will help them realize each other’s worth and how they cannot stand to be without each other!

Playing hard with this submissive or dominant control will help foster feelings of commitment and devotion among both partners. For some, this mechanism is an example of a therapeutic manner and helps increase self-control.

No matter what the scenario might be, it is unquestionably one of the best ways to add some spice to your love life. If you truly want something different and unique, every time you hit the bed, working on tease and denial might serve you right.

Here are a few ways for you to allow your man to orgasm (or not), while you are training him.

Satisfying Orgasm
Description:
Stroking the cock in a rhythmic manner with enough pressure and speed over the head and shaft of his cock until he reaches orgasm and finishes ejaculating.

Effects:
Continuing to stroke the male’s cock while he’s ejaculating ensures that his balls are completely depleted of sperm in a forceful manner.

Benefits:
The full depletion of sperm has a calming effect on the male as he enters a relaxed state of mind and body.

Limitations:
All males enter the “Refractory Stage” at this point which leaves them unable to maintain an erection or ejaculate. Most males report a loss of interest in sex for several hours to several days.

Forced to Jerk Off
Description:
Forcing the male to stroke his cock with the intent of bringing himself to orgasm.

Effects:
Continuing to stroke his own cock while he ejaculates ensures that his balls are completely depleted of sperm in a forceful manner generally associated with a “Satisfying Orgasm.”

Benefits:
Being Forced To Masturbate Is Embarrassing For Most Males So This Is A Good Opportunity To Taunt Him While You Watch.

Limitations:
As with all “Satisfying Orgasms,” the male enters the “Refractory Stage.” At this point, he is left unable to maintain an erection or ejaculate. Most males report a loss of interest in sex for several hours to several days.

Blue Balls / Tease & Denial

Description:
Stroking the male’s cock with the intent of bringing him very close to orgasm, but stopping before he ejaculates. Let the male cool down for a few moments before repeating the process over and over for as long as you want without allowing him to orgasm.

Effects:
Being kept in a constant state of arousal for such a long period is guaranteed to be very uncomfortable afterward with a condition commonly known as “Blue Balls.”

Benefits:
Although uncomfortable, no male has ever died from “Blue Balls.” Using this time to massage his balls will be quite amusing and entertaining for the female as the male will find this nearly unbearable.

Limitations:
Of course, the male will experience the discomfort of “Blue Balls” as it takes an hour or two before he returns to normal and is ready for more training.

Unsatisfying Orgasm (aka: “Minimized Orgasm” or “Ruined Orgasm”)

Description:
Stroking the male’s cock with the intent of bringing him to orgasm then letting go of his cock as soon as or just before he starts to ejaculate.

Effects:
Removing all stimulation while the male’s orgasm is in progress limits the amount of sperm that is released by his balls while minimizing the pleasurable effects generally associated with a satisfying orgasm. Basically, his orgasm is declining before it even starts.

Benefits:
The small depletion of sperm allows the male to maintain his erection for continued training or servitude while reducing his desire to cum.

Limitations:
The male will generally experience a sense of frustration due to a lack of satisfaction after his orgasm has been minimized.

Post Orgasm Torture
Description:
Stroking the male’s cock in a rhythmic manner with enough pressure and speed over the head and shaft of his cock until he reaches orgasm, but instead of stopping after his orgasm is completee, the Female continues stroking the shaft and sensitive head of his cock.

Effects:
Continuing to stroke the shaft and sensitive head of the male’s cock after he has ejaculated ensures that any satisfaction he had just moments ago is completely cone and replaced with unbearable friction as the head of the cock is hyper-sensitive after orgasm.

Benefits:
Although short-lived, the male receives a full orgasm. Many Women report a sense of empowerment and pleasure while inflicting this sort of “agony” on the male.

Limitations:
As with the “Satisfying Orgasm,” all males enter the “Refractory Stage” at this point which leaves them unable to maintain an erection or ejaculate. Most males report losing interest in sex for several hours to several days.

Tease and denial games are so much fun, if the denial isn’t your/his thing you can choose to let him cum, eventually.

Remember, foreplay doesn’t need to be followed immediately with sex. Erotic tease and denial is great for foreplay that can be done for several hours, days or even longer leading up to sex.

Tease and denial is all about constant arousal. It is basically keeping your man in a heightened state of arousal without orgasm.

Bring him to the edge of orgasm and stop short. Then do it again…and again…and over and over again!

Every orgasm denial will get him closer to insanity!

For some guys, the constant teasing and denial is even more enjoyable than the eventual orgasm.

Let’s begin with a fun basic tease and denial game. Start out with a handjob. Bring him closer and closer to the edge of orgasm.

When he gets close, stop all stimulation. Let go of his cock and watch him flop around like a fish!

Then do it again. Bring him to the edge of orgasm…then squeeze his dick hard. Stop all the blood flow and watch him cry out in agony!

Basic tease and denial can be a great foreplay activity before he has to pleasure you to many, many orgasms!

Men are great pets when they’re kept on a short leash. The more you deny him the more eager he will be to serve!

A basic tease and denial blowjob is also really funny. Most guys love blowjobs, right? I mean they beg for one non-stop.

Well, a tease and denial blowjob is all he’s going to get. Bring him to the edge of orgasm with your tongue and lips. Then just stop and say, “Okay, that’s enough of that,” or something along those lines.

It’ll completely ruin the mood and he’ll get a very bad tease!

1. Vibrating Egg Tease

This is really fun 🙂

Get a vibrating egg or similar and tie it around his dick. Set it at a low volume and make out with him. Watch him twitch uncontrollably.

Here’s a really fun idea: tie him down with a vibrating bullet around his head. Make sure it’s on a low volume but capable of keeping him hard.

Kiss him on the lips then tell him you’re going out shopping for a few hours! Put a pair of your well worn panties around his face so he can smell your irresistible scent!

He’ll be thinking about you the whole time you’re shopping with his credit card!

2. Femdom 69

Straddle your man’s face. Order him to eat you out like no tomorrow.

For every orgasm he provides, you’ll allow him 10 strokes by your hand.

This game is so much fun because he’ll be working overtime to make sure you have the most mind blowing orgasms! Of course the point of this game is to tease him to the point of insanity.

If he’s close to an orgasm be sure to stop all stimulation 🙂

3. Bondage Fun

Bondage is so much fun. We love rope, handcuffs, and spreader bars. Tying someone down is always so naughty.

Tie him down against the bed. Make sure he is spread eagle. This will give you unrestricted access to his body. Give him a big tease. Start out by stroking his dick softly with your fingers.

Then use your tongue to tease him a little bit. He’ll be dripping precum at this point!

Then shove his dick up your pussy. Ride him until you cum. Instruct him that he is not allowed to cum under any circumstance.

When he gets close stop all stimulation. Repeat this over and over again! He’ll be thrashing against the rope trying to get out.

Here’s a fun idea: Roll a pair of die. The number you get is the number of times he’ll have to be edged! Let’s just hope it lands on 12! 🙂

4. Chastity Tease And Denial

Okay this game is so much fun. You’ll laugh your ass off!

Set a timer for 30 minutes or one hour. Whichever you feel is the most appropriate.

Tie your husband/boyfriend down. Make sure the ropes are very secure 🙂

Then begin to tease him in whatever way you see fit. When he gets close to orgasm he must beg you to stop.

Make him say something like “Please stop Goddess! I’m about to cum!” (it’s REALLY funny!)

Whenever he begs you to stop, mark it down on a piece of paper. Keep repeating this over and over again until the timer runs out.

No cumming for him at all. When the timer sounds, count up the number of times he begged you to stop! That is the amount of days he must spend in chastity!

Not only did he get tease and denied, but he will be locked in chastity too! The look on his face will be priceless!

Once he’s in chastity, there will be dozens of other fun games to play 🙂

5. Sensory Deprivation

Sensory deprivation is a great way to have a fun tease and denial marathon.

By sensory deprivation, we just mean taking away one or more of his senses. We usually play with sight and sound.

We think sight is the most fun out of the group. Tie down your hubby/boyfriend and blindfold him. Then, tease him with your hands/lips/other toys. He’ll always be wondering what you’re doing to him.

The best part of taking away his sight is that he won’t know what’s happening!

6. Ice Ice Baby!

After a nice and long tease, what’s the best way to deny a guy? Some ladies love to use a little pain such as slapping the balls/dick.

However, we’ve found that the most excruciating (and funny) method is simply using ice!

Tease your hubby/boyfriend over and over again (make sure he’s tied down). Then whisper seductively into his ear. Tell him you’re going to let him cum.

Tell him how bad you want his cum. Moan his name loudly. When he’s about to blow, dump some ice onto his cock/balls. Make sure to rub it around. Ice water also works as well 🙂

His hardon will shrink faster than you ever thought possible! Ice is always a really fun way to end a tease and denial session. Give it a try and see the surprised look on his face!

Tip: This “ice surprise” works best when he’s tied down and blindfolded.

Tease and Denial Games – Final Thoughts

The great thing about tease and denial games is that there are dozens and dozens of games.

There will never be another dull moment in your sex life.

Once you have your first tease and denial session, you’ll never want to go back to vanilla foreplay!

So…which idea on this list do you like the most? Let me know in the comments!

While he may not be allowed to cum during the month, there are lots of ways to play with him and denied orgasm games are a great way to bring another level of kink into your sex life.

There’s nothing more fun than giving your man the HOPE of a long awaited orgasm, just to take that hope away, maybe you’ll let him in December…

So if you’re short in ideas for orgasm denial, hopefully these ideas help you out!

1. Edging games

Tie your man spread eagle on the bed and tease the shit out of him! Bite on his nipples, kiss his neck, and let him feel your hot breath all over his skin.

Then, run down to his cock and tease it like crazy. Make him drip out pre-cum. If you don’t want him to fuck you, use a fleshlight to jerk him off!

The name of the games is edging and denial. Bring him so close to the brink and them make him crash back to earth!

Here are some CRAZY things you can do:

*Give him a handjob. When he needs to cum, stop. Then do the same thing with your mouth. Then switch to your feet. Use every part of your body to torture his little dick!

*Jerk him off with your dirty panties. There’s nothing hotter than making sure he knows he’s not worthy of your pussy!

2. Chastity tease and denial

Chastity tease and denial games are some of the most extreme and excruciating forms of kink play! That’s why I love it so much.

Lock him up and chastity and give him a blowjob. A chastity blowjob is the worst because he won’t be able to feel much! Make sure to alternate playing with his skin and the plastic/steel cage (where he can’t feel anything).

Another fun chastity game is to use a vibrator to stimulate his balls.

Really JAM the vibrator against his sensitive balls. When he’s about to explode, stop all stimulation IMMEDIATELY. Then throw a bucket of ice on his blue balls!

3. Pantyhose tease

Alright, I’m about to teach you a pretty crazy (and extreme) tease and denial technique.

What you’re going to do is wear some sexy pantyhose for your man.

After that, give him a strip tease. But make sure he is tied down. What you’re going to do is pull the pantyhose over his cock until it rests where your toes normally go.

Hold the base of his cock very tight and pull the pantyhose so it creates friction on the head of his cock.

This will totally overstimulate his cock and bring him in a world of pain and pleasure! Use this to edge him until he can’t take it anymore!

4. Panty tease

Is there anything funnier than making a man into a sissy?

Put that “man” of yours into a pair of pink frilly panties.

Then use a vibrator and edge him to the brink of orgasm over and over again.

Bonus points if you lock him into chastity before hand!

If you do this right, the panties should be absolutely soaked with his pre-cum by the end of the session!

5. Extreme pussy tease

Straddle him and ride him (you can either slide on his dick or insert it, your choice) until he’s about to cum.

Stop and wait 20-3 seconds, then slap his balls a few times. Then restart the process all over again!

6. Viagra and icy hot

Alright, this is a really, really fun game!

Slip some viagra into his drink during dinner. When it comes time to play later, lather a healthy amount of icy hot into a condom and put it on him.

The icy hot will make his skin feel like it’s burning. However he won’t be able to get soft because of the viagra.

Now’s your chance to fuck him while he’s in pain and hard!

Tell him he can cum whenever he can, but the pain will be too great to bring him over the edge! He’ll get a very painful and funny denied orgasm!

7. Viagra and numbing cream

This is another fun game. Give your man some viagra.

Then proceed to fuck his brains out. He must warn you before he is going to explode.

Keep a condom filled with numbing cream on your nightstand.

When he gives you that first warning of being close to orgasm, slip the condom on his dick.

This will remove all stimulation and he’ll get a bad denied orgasm and a bad case of blue balls!

P.S. I highly recommend using this brand of numbing cream. It’s basically a anesthetic (and can actually be used in surgery). It works fast and is highly effective!

8. Blowjob and go

Does he always ask you for a blowjob?

Blow his mind again by actually giving him one!

What’s the catch? Well, when he is about to cum, stop. Just get up and walk away.

9. Rub the tip

If you really want to edge him over and over again in the cruelest way, then playing with the tip of his cock is the best way.

And you can do this in a number of ways…

You can give a blowjob and focus specifically on the head.

But be careful…the tip of his manhood is very sensitive so it probably can’t take much teasing.

And you obviously want to stop before he’s over the point of no return

10. Bring the ice

One thing that can be annoying when it comes to a a cruel edging session is the “downtime” between edges.

It sucks having to wait before you can torture his dick again.

And that’s why I recommend bringing some ice to the bedroom.

Every time he is close to the edge, take a few cubes of ice in your hands and rub it all over his cock and balls.

That’ll cool him down pretty quick and even kill his hardon!

Denied Orgasm Games – Final Thoughts

Overall, orgasm denial should be a regular activity in your FLR. After all, men really need to earn their orgasms.

By denying him over and over again, you will turn your boyfriend/husband/slave into an obedient little dog for you!

So, which denied orgasm game is your favorite? And which one do you want to try the most?

Let me know in the comments!

Just adding a little something extra into the usual activities can make for entirely new experiences. Here are some little things to try:

• Don’t stroke his penis – squeeze him rhythmically instead.
• Moan your approval while you are sucking his dick.
• Long day at work? Tie him up with his own tie.
• Loop a pearl necklace around his cock and stroke him with it.
• Drape a red scarf over the bedside lamp for a sultry glow.
• Stroke him while wearing lubed latex gloves. The sensation will be surprising and fun.
• Come to bed in leather lingerie.
• Get started early by sending some sexy text messages there way. Like these!
• Use earplugs for utterly silent play – it’s more intense than you think!
  • Combine with a blindfold for even more intensity.
• Have your ass lubed up before he comes to bed, and invite him to put his dick there.
• Ask your lover to come all over your body.
• Put a porn movie on the television while you get it on. Imitate what the actors do.
• Put her dildo in the refrigerator for a while and then slide it into her warm body.
• Read an erotic story to him while he strokes it, or use you hand…
• Try a new position, just some small changes to angles can make a huge difference.
• Pretend to be a prostitute and give your client whatever he wants.
• Wear a thong or G-string and keep them on while you fuck – just pull them to the side.
• For the open-minded man, a strap-on can be a hot sex toy.
• Try the dice roll. Roll a pair of dice, and whatever number comes up is the number of minutes you will spend doing whatever sex move he wants. Set a timer! When time is up, it’s your turn.
• Talk dirty to him with raunchy words you have never used before. Need Ideas?
• Offer to shave your lover’s body before you make love.
• Wake your lover up by going down on them.
• Hop in the shower and wash your partner’s body from head to toe – spending a great deal of time on the really dirty areas, if you catch the drift.

Most of us know that certain holidays have sexual connotations. If you asked “What day is a sex holiday?” most people would answer Valentines Day, or maybe their birthday. Some of you may also know about “Steak & Blowjob Day”, but how about “Cake & Cunnilingus Day”? There are many more days that have been set aside for sex and sometimes specific sexual activities. We decided to get all of these holidays together so we can plan appropriately throughout the year. While some are not strictly sexual, they sure can be if you get creative.

January

• Jan. 1: New Year’s Day: After the traditional kiss at midnight, why not take it from there to get your new year off to the best possible start? #1 night each year for sexy parties. We may have ancient Rome to thank for our New Year’s kiss (and more), specifically Saturnalia.
• Jan. 3: National Chololate Covered Cherry Day – Maybe the cherry can be your partner…
• Jan 5: National Whipped Cream Day – I think you can come up with something here…
• Jan 6: National Cuddle Up Day – Cuddles can easily lead to more.
• Jan 8: National Bubble Bath Day – Take a bubble bath with your partner.
• Jan. 13: Shower Together Day — Clean and environmentally beneficial, right? Some call it “Sex in the Shower Day.”
• Jan. 14: National Male Chastity Day — Lock up your man’s cock for the day. Need a lock? Here is one. To do it right make sure to tease him constantly and have him serve your needs. Since his cock is locked you may just need to ride his face.
• Jan 15: Fetish Day — Enjoy all the non-vanilla yummy stuff that gets you off. BDSM, toys, costumes, feet, it is all fair game on Jan. 15. There is even a crazy quiz you can take to help you identify your favorite fetish.
• Jan 21: National Hugging Day – Hugging is a great way to start.
• Jan 24: National Compliment Day – Who knows what the right compliment can trigger.
• Jan 26: Spouse’s Day – Give your spouse a little something special.

February

• Feb 5: National Shower with a Friend Day – Your partner is your friend…
• Feb. 7: Work Naked Day — Created to emphasize the comfort in working from home, but now that so many of us are working from home, maybe it is time to take this holiday more literally.
• Feb. 14: Valentine’s Day — Still the #1 holiday for romance and sex. And safe sex — the entire week has been deemed National Condom Week.

March

• Mar. 3: Threesome Day — The idea to celebrate threesomes on a given day bounces around the Internet, but which day remains in dispute. 3/3 is fitting.
• Mar. 5: National Restock Your Lube Day – This one is important, you will definitaley need it next month.
• Mar. 14: Steak and Blowjob Day — This purports to repay the effort that went into Valentine’s Day minus all the commercialization. My guess is that some guy just wanted a steak and a blowjob, went to great lengths to sell it, and we all owe that guy a debt of gratitude.

April

• April is Anal Awareness Month – Recognize your anus, touch it, play with it, insert things, enjoy it.
• April 13: Blowjob Day — You know what to do. Maybe rub his anus while your down there…
• Apr. 14: Cake and Cunnilingus Day — Why do cocks get all the fun? Not to be outdone by Steak & BJ Day, a month later we now focus on pussies. And cake! Ideally, both participants eat at the same time. While he is down there maybe he can be aware of your anus too…
• Apr. 16: National Horny Day — According to Vanity Fair, we are going through a Horniness Revolution. And we already have a day for it. See if your monthly awareness can add a little to your horniness.
• Apr. 18: Anal Sex Day — Since April is Anal Awareness Month, you should be aware of it by now and it is time to enjoy some anal sex.
• Apr. 24: National Lingerie Day — Linger around your house all day, or wear it under your clothes, but wear something that makes you feel sexy and make it a day to remember. To continue with the monthly theme a buttplug can be a great accessory.
• Apr. 25: Denim Day – Break out the denim, especially since those tight jeans will help your partner be aware of your ass… mmm.
• 4th Saturday: Husband Appreciation Day – Make sure your husbands know you appreciate them. I’m sure you know your husband well enough to know what he would like this day (remember what month it is…).

May

• May is Masturbation Month. If you must limit yourself to one day (and why would you?), Wikipedia says it is May 28. This masturbation holiday began in 1995 after Surgeon General Joyce Elders was fired for suggesting that masturbation be included in the sex education curriculum. Masturbation Day was the brainchild of vibrator seller Good Vibrations — sounds a little self-serving.
• May 1: May Day — A famous pagan rite of spring and, for many, it might just be the original sex party celebrating fertility.
• May 1: No Pants Day – A day where people go pantless in public and act like that is the new normal.
• May 5: Make Out Day — aka “The Big Smooch.” It is also Cinco de Mayo; might free-flowing tequila have something to do with the creation of this holiday?
• May 8: Outdoor Intercourse Day — Take advantage of better weather. It’s a day to get out into the great outdoors and do the nasty.
• May 14: Online Romance Day dates back to 1999. Did we even have “online” back then? Apparently we did, and we were already getting jiggy with it.
• May 17: Edging for Summer to Start – By now we are all excited for Summer to get here, so we will Edge every day until the first day of summer. No cumming until summer does!
• May 20: Ass Grabbing Day — Grab some ass today!
• First Saturday in May is World Naked Gardening Day – Plow the fields and plant some seeds. If you know what I mean.

June

• June is LGBTQ Pride Month.
• June 2: Sex Workers Day — A day to celebrate those who give all year long and to ensure sex workers are supported and not exploited or unfairly criminalized.
• June 9: 69 Day  — Of course 6/9 is a sex holiday. May you and your partner enjoy it equally.
• June 14: Balls Only Day — A day for playing with balls only, no touching the shaft.
• June 20: National Public Display of Affection Day — Psychology Today put it best: “celebrate the very human impulse to grope, fondle, and tongue-kiss one another in the company of mildly disgusted strangers.”
• June 21: World Kamasutra Day — June 21 is the longest day of the year. How many sexual positions can you enjoy? Shouldn’t this be a month?
• June 21: National Selfie Day – Take a sexy selfie and send it to your partner.
• June 22: No Panty Day — Twitter loves this one, and really, who can blame it? Enjoy the feeling of freedom that comes with going commando.
• June 24: National Suck Dick Day — Suck a dick today, or have yours sucked.
• Fingers Only Friday: The Last Friday in June — Pleasure you partner with only your fingertips.

July

• July 4: Independence Day — Are you horny for America, or just horny? Either way, the 4th is a time to celebrate your freedom. Maybe outdoors.
• July 5: National Bikini Day – At least start the day with one on.
• July 6: Kissing Day — Did you know that kissing involves using 34 of your 42 facial muscles? Time to give them a workout. Pucker up!
• July 8: Body Painting Day – Maybe cover up with some edible paint for a little licking fun.
• July 14: National Nudity Day – Bare it all and bare it with pride! Embrace your body and let it all hang out.
• July 17: World Emoji Day – Use some emojis to tell your partner what you want to do to them.
• July 19: Handjob Day — Give someone a hand with this one! It’s the whole day, not just once, wink, wink!
• July 24: BDSM Day — Since 2003, this has been a day to celebrate BDSM. What exactly are the B, D, S & M being celebrated? In modern parlance, some of the letters do double-duty, as the term today generally refers to bondage & discipline, dominance & submission, and sadism & masochism.
• July 27: National Go Slow Day – Take your time getting there today and let the tension build throughout the day.
• July 28: Cock Torture Day – Torture a cock today. Use your fingers, tongue, teeth, and toys for a full day of cock torture. End the day with the most torturous thing for a hard throbbing cock… don’t let it cum!
• July 29: National Lipstick Day – Lips are just sexy. Today, dress them up and use them on someone.
• July 31: National Orgasm Day — Orgasms relieve stress, reduce heart disease, and help you live longer. We should have more of them!

August

• August is Anal Sex Month – Take the month to explore the backdoor.
• The First Wednesday of August is Road Head Wednesday – Take a drive and give some head!
• Aug 2: Buttplug Day – Does this need an explanation?
• Aug 4: Ruined Orgasm Day – How many ruined orgasms can you give your partner in one day? Go for a record!
• Aug. 5: National Underwear Day — A day to mention your unmentionables, and enjoy them.
• Aug. 8: International Female Orgasm Day – A very important day. If you are female, make sure you get a big O today. For bonus points, get that O while participating in Anal Sex Month.
• Aug. 23: Go Topless Day — Why is it ok for men to go topless, but not women? Maybe it should even be preferred.
• Aug 27: National Just Because Day – Do something a little extra for your partner just because.
• Aug 29: Plugged O’s Only Day — Orgasms are only allowed today if you have a buttplug in. Feel free to play as much as you want, but no cumming unless you are plugged.
• Aug 30: Lingerie Tease Day — Wear your sexiest lingerie and tease your partner all day.
• Aug. 31: Cock Ring Day — Cock rings are great for making a cock harder, more sensitive, and maintaining an erection for longer. Use as many cock rings as you can, cover it with them, and keep it hard for as long as possible. We recommend not allowing release until after midnight to kick off September’s Pleasure Your Mate Month.

September

• September is Pleasure Your Mate Month — Emphasis on the word “pleasure.”
• Sept. 1: September Sucks! — You should be able to figure out what to do this day.
• Sept. 4: World Sexual Health Day — Time to have those frank conversations about sex and sexuality, and maybe do something about it.
• Sept. 6: European 69 Day — For the same reason American’s find June 9 appropriate, at least some Europeans, where they write the day before the month, use 6 September (6/9) as their day.
• Third Saturday in September is Slow Stroke Saturday— this is a day dedicated to excruciatingly slow stroking handjobs. The idea is to stroke so slowly that they can never achieve orgasm, keep them right on the edge for the day. It’s up to you if they ever actually cum this day.
• Sep. 21: Wife appreciation day – appreciate your wife and get that tongue between her legs.
• Sep. 21: Beginning of National Horniness — The idea is to become as horny as possible, so make sure to edge daily, preferably multiple times each day. Continue until the 30th and them have a massive orgasm to celebrate. For more fun with a partner, edge each other until your both begging for an orgasm.
• Sep. 23: Bisexuality Day — If you are bisexual, or if you just find bisexuality sexy, this is a day for you.
• Sep. 26: Love Note Day — Or step it up a notch and write your lover some personalized erotica.

October

• October is Oral Sex Month – Get that mouth to work!
• October is National Kink Month – This is the perfect time to try something new and spice up your sex life! Explore domination, submission, foreplay, role play and impact play all month. You may come out screaming and begging for more.
• October is also known as Locktober, which is another great way to celebrate Kink Month. Lock your man’s penis in a chastity cage and tease him all month. You might want to let him out of his cage on Halloween for a little release before November starts, or maybe not… 😏
• Oct. 1: Massage Day — If you are a tactile person, this is your month. Oct. 1 kicks off Pro-Touch Awareness Month. Anyone up for a happy ending?
• Oct. 6: Kink Day — If you are not celebrating it for the whole month at least get a little kinky this day.
• Oct. 13: National No Bra Day – Let the girls swing free!
• Oct. 17: Ass Day — Don’t let yourself fall behind on this holiday, or maybe do. Show some love for ass today.
• Oct. 21: International Fisting Day — Possibly the most specific and extreme day to make this list, its proponents encourage people to “celebrate this beloved and controversial sex act.”
• Oct. 28: National Chocolate Day – How could you make this one sexual…?
• Oct. 31: Halloween — Slip into your spookiest, sexiest, most ghoulish costumes and live out all your fantasies. If you are not getting freaky on Halloween, you are doing it wrong.

November

• November is National Erectile Dysfuntion Month – Don’t be ashamed of this, talk to your doctor there are lots of options available.
• November is also No-Nut-November, so celebrate Erectile Dysfunction Month by getting it as hard as you can, but you are not allowed to cum! If you are looking for ideas make sure to check out 10 No-Nut-November Games and for even more fun try some Tease and Denial.
• Election Day: Sex Toy Day — Time to play with your most fun toys. After a trip to the ballot box, a little toy-enhanced playtime might be just what you need.
• Nov. 8: Breast Appreciation Day – A day to celebrate boobs! Play with them, use them, rub them all over your partner.
• Nov. 17: Balls Only Day — A day for playing with balls only, no touching the shaft.
• Nov. 23: Tongue Day – Only touch your partner with your tongue, I’m sure this could get interesting…
• Nov. 24: Talk Like a Pirate Day – Aaargh, I’m gonna plunder your booty.
• Saturday After Thanksgiving: Spanksgiving — Spanking is fun and sexy, and there are even classes on how to do it right.
• Nov. 30: Last Day – Did you make it all the way to the end of No-Nut-November without cumming? Congratulations, now you get to celebrate, well not until after midnight. Your partner should be putting even more effort into teasing you today, stay strong!

December

• If you made it through No-Nut-November you can now celebrate with Destroy-Dick-December, cum the number of times for the day. Once on the first, twice on the second, three on the third, you get the idea.
• I think that would be excessive after the first week, so may I suggest the alternative of Draining December, just cum every day this month! Maybe several times on the 22nd though.
• Dec. 16: National Chocolate Covered Anything Day – What could you cover with chocolate…?
• Dec. 22: Global Orgasm Day — Coinciding with the winter solstice, its time to orgasm… for peace! Organizers claim, “The mission of the Global Orgasm is to effect change in the energy field of the Earth through input of the largest possible surge of human energy.” Whatever gets you there.
• Dec. 25: Merry Christmas – ’Tis the season for giving! Give your special someone a Naughty Gift this year. Whether it be a sexy new toy, lingerie, or a Naughty trip or event… give the gift that keeps on giving!
• Dec. 31: New Years’ Eve — End the year (or begin the new year) with a bang. Technically traditional has us wait for the new year to kiss (and more), which is Jan. 1, so consider Dec. 31 foreplay. Leading to the ball drop, New Years’ Eve is the year’s best tease. Ten… nine… eight…

If you’ve been with your special someone for a long time, you know how repetitive sex can become. Experimentation no longer seems possible?

If you are looking to bring a little spice and maybe some kink into your relationship, we suggest trying some of these things with your partner:

• Silent Sex
  • No moaning. No talking. Just a whole lot of inward and outward motion.
• Loud Sex
  • Go bonkers. Be as loud as you can.
• Talk dirty.
  • Turn up the heat by describing what you are feeling or what you are going to do to them before you do it. Or teasing words about what they might like, “I bet you really want me to ____” or are aren’t allowed to do “You are not allowed to _______ yet, maybe if you are good.” Here are some more ideas?
• No holds barred, crazy sex in a five star hotel.
  • Treat yourselves to a night in a luxury hotel, and make sure to have lots of sex throughout!
• Masturbate
  • Watch each other masturbate and get off!
• Whisper your naughty fantasy into his ear – while you’re in public. The wait to get home will be delicious torture!
• Selflessness
  • Devote an entire day to just pleasing your partner. From oral sex to erotic massage, do everything. Make sure they devote a day to you too.
• Bondage
  • If this seems a little too extreme for you start simple, wrap a tie or scarf around their wrists and secure them to a chair and go down on them. Or ask to be tied to the headboard and let them have their way with you. You might be surprised how being tied up and controlled can actually let you feel free to fully experience what is happening. Or how being in complete control of someone focuses your attention on them and provides you with a feeling of power.
• Dedicate a full day to just trying out different sex positions.
• Have anal sex
  • Add another entrée to the menu: anal sex. With the right preparation and mindset, taking things to the back can be the kinky sex idea you’ll thank god you tried.
• Watch porn together, and try to recreate what is happening.
• Go to a movie theatre and touch each other in the dark.
• Try role-playing.
  • It gives you a chance to let loose and act in a way that you wouldn’t necessarily behave ordinarily, and that’s incredibly freeing. Make them your slave, get them to play a nurse or a plumber. Whatever ideas that get you going. Role-play is a harmless way to live out a fantasy and get kinky.
• No Sex
  • Seems wrong, but hear us out. Take penetration out of the equation and focus only on foreplay. Removing the main entrée will let you enjoy all of the side dishes even more.
• Play out each other’s fantasy. No matter how kinky and weird.
• Try a remote controlled sex toy.
  • Get something such as a remote controlled vibrating buttplug, or panties. Imagine making your partner squirm in public at your will. Interesting right? They even have ones now which connect to your phone and can be controlled by your partner anywhere in the world.
• Give your partner multiple orgasms. Because they deserve it!
• Blindfolds
  • Blindfolds increase all other senses and make for an interesting experience.
• No panties
  • Go out to a fancy dinner and wear a dress without panties and let him know in the most creative way. Or wear them there and take them off in the bathroom and discreetly hand them to him when you come back to the table. To take things up another notch, a buttplug can really add to the excitement.
• Get wet in the rain together.
• Give your partner a lap dance.
• Go to a strip club together.
  • Trust us, this will get you both hot and bothered and when you get home It’s going to be a lot of fun.
• Try out edible underwear.
• Go skinny dipping.
  • You don’t have to hunting for a water body, do it in a pool.
• Oral sex
  • All too often this gets treated as a quick little bit of foreplay. For a change make it the main event, have an oral only night.
• Try nipple clamps.
• Dress up
  • Find the kinkiest of outfits and seduce him. Babydoll lingerie set, sexy teacher, nurse, maid, schoolgirl, or whatever turns him on. Try to keep the majority of the outfit on, such as wearing your high heels the entire time you’re having sex.
• Read erotica to each other, but no sex, or maybe…
• Take a shower together.
• Welcome your partner home with no clothes on. (Make sure they are alone.)
• Wake up your partner with your mouth down there.
• Have sex in front of a mirrror.
• Try a no hands policy.
• Send a racy text.
  • Be as brave as your vocabulary permits. You can send a simple, suggestive message – “I can’t wait to touch you tonight,” for example – or something more bold, such as a step by step guide to what you’ll do to them and what they should do to you. Need ideas? We’ve got them here.
• Sneak into a dressing room and…
• Have some strap-on fun
  • Getting a strap-on and penetrating your partner is a whole new experience that switches up the dynamic and lead to some sex sessions you’ll never forget. If you’re into the idea, talk to your partner. As always, healthy open communication is key.
• Get a sex pillow
  • Sometimes angles can make all the difference. With a sex pillow, all kinds of new angles become available and the same-old, same-old suddenly feels anything but ordinary.
• Lounge in lingerie
  • Wearing underthings that make you feel confident and sexy is teh ultimate self-tunr-on. Even if you’re wearing nothing but sweats around the house, slip on something that makes you ready for action underneath – it will be a sexy surprise for both of you.
• In the fridge
  • Bringing food int he bedroom can be oh so hot. Make an ice cream sundae, but rather thatn top your vanilla confection with hot sauce or whipped cream, rub a dab on your lips or neck and ask your lover to lick it off. As things heat up, paint some of your erogenous zones with deliciousness they’ll lap up with pleasure.